Det som en forelskelse handler om,

Det som en forelskelse handler om, når vi taler om forelskelse i dagligdagen.

Vi forelsker os i det vi tror personen er og kan og vil og vil gør for os, og ikke i personens virkelighed. Det er meget bedre på sigt, hvis man vil have et godt og solidt og holdbart forhold at basere det på ”det som er” i stedet for ”det som man tror, håber på, drømmer om etc.”, for så kan man kun blive skuffet, da ingen kan leve op til de drømme vi sætter. Og derfor bliver vi tit skuffet over vores partner, når den første forelskelse har lagt sig, for personen var jo ikke den vi troede at personen var! Den som vi havde bildt os selv ind, at personen var.

Jeg skriver dette til dig, fordi vi kender ikke hinanden.

Jeg kunne lige så godt være falsk, have en falsk profil, det er jo nemt at få lavet en profil med en andens billede på.
Jeg er meget smigret over at du skriver til mig, om at du elsker mig, men hvordan kan du vide at jeg eksisterer?

Resultater (Engelsk) 1:

It as a puppy love is all about, when we talk about falling in love in daily life.We fall in love with us in what we think the person is and can and will and will do for us, and not in the person's reality. It is much better in the long run, if we want to have a good and solid and durable relation to base it on "as is" instead of "that which one believes, hopes, dreams, etc.", so we can only be disappointed, as no one can live up to the dreams we put. And that is why we are often disappointed by our partner, when the first infatuation has subsided, because the person was not the one we thought that person was! It as we had who persuaded ourselves into that person was.I am writing this to you, because we do not know each other.I could just as well be false, have a fake profile, it's easy to get a profile with someone else's image on.I'm very flattered that you write to me if you love me, but how do you know that I exist?

Resultater (Engelsk) 2:

It is like a love affair is about, when we talk about love in daily life. We fall in love with what we think the person is and can and do and will do for us, and not in the person's reality. It's much better in the long run, if you want a good, solid and durable compared to base it on "what is" rather than "what we believe, hope, dreams, etc.", as one can only be disappointed as no one can live up to the dreams we set. And so we are often disappointed with our partner when the first love has died down, the person was not the one we thought that person was! It we had got ourselves into that person was. I write this to you because we do not know each other. I might as well be false, have a fake profile, it's easy to have made ​​a profile of someone else's image on. I'm very flattered that you write to me if you love me, but how do you know that I exist?

Resultater (Engelsk) 3:

As a falling is all about, when we are talking about falling in daily life.

We Love with us in what we think the person is and can and will and will do for us, and not in that person's life. It is much better in the long term, if you want to have a good and solid and durable compared to base it on "as is" instead of "as you think, hope for, dream of, etc. ", as you can only be disappointed,